"Education is the most powerful tool which you can use to change the world."
⁓ Nelson Mandela
My homeschool journey
Before my first child was born, I envisioned providing my children with a top-notch education, naturally leaning towards Islamic schooling. However, my search left me dissatisfied with the options available – one lacked an impressive curriculum while another suffered from overcrowded classrooms. How could my children succeed and thrive in such environments?
When my son turned five, I noticed his timid yet creative personality. After much contemplation and research, I was Inspired and chose to homeschool, believing it would open us to an education beyond classroom walls. Two decades ago, homeschooling was a rarity. Seeking advice and guidance, I turned to mentors who provided invaluable insights, tempered with needed truths. They warned me that the journey wouldn't initially be easy but reassured me that it would improve – and it did. I encountered skepticism and ridicule from naysayers who doubted my capabilities. Some labeled me as a "know-it-all" and questioned my expertise. Their opinions didn't deter me. With unwavering support from my husband and parents, I remained steadfast in my decision - their encouragement was all I needed to continue.
Navigating the early years of homeschooling posed challenges, especially when my daughter's learning style differed from her brother's. Yet, with determination, I embraced a new approach, exploring diverse teaching methods and collaborating with other homeschooling families. Each hurdle was met with resilience and each milestone celebrated with joy. My children's homeschooling journey opened doors to unique opportunities – from community service initiatives to immersive learning experiences spanning the globe.
I teamed up with wonderful sisters I met at the Masjid, and together, we founded a cooperative. This provided the platform for our children to collaborate on projects, deliver presentations, and embark on enriching field trips. Remarkably, many of the friendships formed within our co-op nearly two decades ago continue to flourish.
By homeschooling, my children gained access to opportunities unavailable in a traditional school setting. From the age of seven, they engaged in regular volunteer work, organizing and participating in food and clothing drives to assist homeless families. They dedicated their time to serving at shelters, senior homes, and assisted living facilities, fostering a sense of compassion and empathy at a young age.
They actively participated in nature classes, mastering skills such as fire-building techniques, self-defense, and survival skills. Their educational journey extended beyond the classroom with field trips to Baltimore and DC, enriching their understanding of local culture and history. Moreover, they had the privilege of exploring global destinations such as Spain, delving into the rich Islamic history at Alhambra, and experiencing the vibrant culture of Morocco by visiting Berber villages. They traveled to Egypt, where they immersed themselves in the Arabic language, while marveling at the ancient pyramids. Additionally, they traveled to Saudi Arabia, where they performed Umrah, deepening their connection to Islam and gaining insight into the legacies of figures like Hajar and Ibrahim (peace be upon them). These experiences broadened their horizons and instilled a profound appreciation for diverse cultures and traditions.
While being homeschooled, three of my children accomplished the remarkable task of memorizing the Qur’an, a journey they continue through regular revision. Additionally, my two sons have taken on leadership roles within our community, leading prayers at local-area Masajid and Taraweeh prayers during Ramadan.
As my children approached high school and college, I found myself in unfamiliar territory once again. Managing transcripts, report cards, and graduation requirements felt daunting, but we worked together to accomplish what needed to be done. I empowered my children to take charge of their academic journey, urging them to seek letters of recommendation and complete their applications. Witnessing their academic achievements, including scholarships and university acceptances, filled me with joy!
My daughter earned early acceptance into the dental hygiene program she applied to, becoming the youngest in her class. Meanwhile, my son chose to enroll at a nearby university to remain close to home – his reasoning being the allure of daily fresh-cooked meals! Following in his father's footsteps, he later applied to dental school and recently received an offer for the upcoming fall semester. Alhamdulillah!
Right now, I oversee the education of my children across various academic levels: one in elementary school, another in middle school, one in high school, one in undergraduate studies, one pursuing a graduate degree, and one engaged in postgraduate studies. Remarkably, all of them are homeschoolers!
In the journey of homeschooling, we've discovered the essence of education: a personalized, well-rounded approach that nurtures a child’s academic excellence, character, and sense of curiosity. As I have witnessed my children thrive in an environment tailored to their individual needs, I have been repeatedly reminded that the world is their classroom. Homeschooling empowers us to unlock our potential and cultivate a life of learning. Yes, it is a journey filled with challenges, but also with immeasurable rewards. In homeschooling, we don't just educate our children, we empower them to embrace the endless possibilities that await them.